Problems

In life I have had a few problems, but they have helped to make me who I am. My parents divorce triggered a lot of questions for me. Not only did the two people who I modeled my life after separate, at the time the separation was something that was hard for me to understand at the time. But the questions that I had helped me to answer and solve problems within myself.

Questions like: how do I feel about relationships?
How do I feel about marriage? And the occasional am I good enough? Became very frequent for a while, but after answering and exploring this question; then arose the question/answers:

Is there anyone out there for me? Is there someone who can truly love me? Is it possible to unconditionally love another person? Is it possible to want to send the rest of your life with another person? Were we meant to spend the rest of our lives with one other person/ why did my parents separate? Why does marriage only work for certain people?

Because of posing and answering my own questions I have been able to develop healthy relationships. I have fund the guy that I truly want to spend the rest of my life with, and I was able to accomplish all of this through a situation that I thought would never have a good outcome. My parents divorce successfully taught me what a marriage should not be or consist of. It taught me that priorities and ach other are things that must come first. A marriage will not work if you do not make it a priority.