Monday, October 26, 2009

Stress and Relaxation

BOY! the last dew months have been so difficult. In contrast my love life and life outside of school have been wonderful, but school has really been a lot on me. There isn't much work but the difficulty level has taken a really steep incline. but enough about that ....... I have been able to manage because I have prayed and I am in a wonderful relationship. He is everything I thought I would never find all in one man. Not to display that he or our relationship is perfect because it is far from it, but it is a wonderful relationship. We have GREAT communication, we are both goal oriented, and most of all we love one another. We both have a very strong sense of what is the most important to us in life. Outside of work and school the people that we love and our faith is most important. All things can be jeopardized, but the love of those around us is most important. I honestly feel that he truly wants nothing but happiness for me and I for him.

Love is so much more than I ever though it would be......it is patient, kind, passionate, caring, giving, charitable, longing, un-selfish, and most of all unrestricted.

Learning how to love another person is an experience in itself. It requires not only great strength, but humility. It requires compromise to help mold the relationship as well. A man is just that; in my opinion it is sometimes necessary to allow them to display that...allow them to care, to be concerned, to take charge that is their human nature and often times their first instinct. A man will be a man as long as he is allowed to be once that is taken from him he changes in many ways.

A man's communication is very different from a woman's. More often than not a man's feelings are shown very often, but not so often spoken...we have to read between the lines just a little. But a close relationship between a man and woman bring open communication and sharing of emotions this I am the most thankful for. The more time you invest in a "good deserving man" the more he will give to a good relationship.

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